Frustrated with internet dating
Yet when you don’t speak up about you want, you reduce your chances of finding a good match.So you settle, feeling frustrated with the process or afraid that you’ll appear undesirable or too old.
But whether you’re actually looking online or have just flirted with the idea, if you’re an older woman you might have an inkling that this way of meeting potential partners is especially challenging for you.
That means first asking yourself who you really want to meet and the type of relationship you’re comfortable with and then, after you’ve asked plenty of questions and received answers, giving yourself the freedom to say, “Thanks, but I think we’re not a good match.
I wish you the best of luck in your search.” It helps to figure out in advance who you’re looking for, and what kind of relationship you want.
Be honest and realistic about the details you reveal.
You want to attract people who’ll like you for who—and the age—you really are, not some idealized image of who you want people to think you are. Display your most recent photo, not the one from three years ago.